App Controlled Sex Toys: Surviving Long Distance Relationships

Long distance relationships are challenging at best, the hardest part is the lack of intimacy and, well, sex. The introduction of Skype and Facetime have made the concept of ‘phone sex’ all the more personal but with the development of further technology, long distance sexual relationships are becoming more ‘virtually’ realised. Obviously, sex is not essential for a healthy relationship but let’s face it, it definitely helps.
The desire for intimacy increases significantly when you know you won’t see them again for weeks or months. To keep an LDR alive, couples quickly have to learn to adapt their definition of sex and look for creative ways to ‘scratch the itch’ for one another. It requires a more creative approach. So, if you are in an exclusive Long Distance Relationship or about to embark on one, relax, you’re don’t have to commit to an arduous dry spell.
Long gone is the myth that sex toys are only enjoyed for solo sex with roughly 80% of women and 90% of men admitting to using sex aids with a partner.
If you’re a toy user or just a lover of new technology, you can make things just as sexy as if you were snuggled up by your partner’s side. In fact, even if you share a bed with your partner every night, these ideas might make you consider a vacation from your other half just to try them out.

 

We’ve taken an in depth look into our top 5 app controlled couples toys:

 

WE-VIBE – SYNC COUPLES VIBRATOR

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The Facts:

Feel closer together than ever, now with adjustable fit for each unique body shape. It’s the most powerful couples vibrator ever created with our fastest charging time and a new 2-year warranty. Take full control over your pleasure with new exclusive We Connect features.

HOW IT WORKS
We-Vibe Sync is designed to be enjoyed with a partner. Its compact, body-hugging form is designed to deliver simultaneous pleasure to the G-spot and the clitoris. It’s made from body-safe silicone — free from phthalates and BPA, and made without latex.

1. Apply We-Vibe Lube —made by pjur to the G-Spot stimulator.
2. Adjust clitoral or G-spot stimulator for a custom fit.
3. Have sex in your favorite position and enjoy the vibe.

SYNC FEATURES
Dual stimulation
Intensify shared pleasure during sex with deep powerful vibrations that stimulate her G-spot and clitoris.
Adjustable fit
Sync is adjustable to your unique body so you can feel the vibrations right where you want them. It’s easy to adjust.

Remote control
The remote can change vibration modes as well as the intensity in the moment. Either partner can use the remote and it works up to a distance of 3 meters.
Smartphone app
The free We-Connect app allows you to play and control from anywhere. Vibe to music with Beat mode or use Touch mode for real-time control at your fingertips.

Waterproof
100% waterproof so you can play anywhere.

Rechargeable
USB rechargeable. Charges in 2 hours, for up to 90 minutes of play.

BEAT MODE AND TOUCH MODE
Download the free We-Connect app and get more Sync features on your smartphone.
The free We-Connect app allows you to play and control from anywhere. Beat mode lets you vibrate to the rhythm of your music. Touch model allows real-time control at your fingertips and lets you create custom vibrations.

 

LOVENSE – LUSH BULLET VIBRATOR

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The Facts: Our No 1 current best seller

Lush is a smartphone (or smartwatch) controlled bullet vibrator. It’s designed for solo play, discreet public play and long distance couples. The hardware is fully optimized for public play so it’s powerful, but quiet.

Close Range Control – Tap and slide control interface is perfect for solo play or foreplay with a partner!

Long Distance Control – Our app enables a partner to take control from any distance.

Unlimited Patterns – Create, download and share vibration patterns.

Music Based Vibrations – Sync to your favorite music.

Sound Activated – Our app will use your smartphone’s microphone and vibrate based on the sounds around you.

– Handsfree insertable bullet
– Fully optimized antenna (that extends outside of the body) enabling control up to 9 meter.
– Strong and rumbly vibrations
– Nearly silent when inserted

 

VIBEASE – IPHONE & ANDROID VIBRATOR

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The Facts:

Vibease is the world’s first wearable smart vibrator that help couples to stay intimate. We created Vibease using revolutionary technology to tap into how women are designed to best experience pleasure. The result is nothing short of extraordinary.

Vibease app allows you to give her toes curling massage from anywhere in the world. It doesn’t matter if you are in the office or you are in another country, you can still have your intimate moments.

The app has a private messaging system for you to share intimate conversations. You can create special vibrations to give her a pleasant surprise. Vibease vibrator is discreet, quiet and wearable.

Product details:
– Controlled by iPhone and Android*
– Long distance remote control over the internet
– Vibrate in sync with erotica
– Small and discreet
– Wearable, fits in any panties.
– 100% hands free, no more numb fingers
– Full silicone and seamless
– Powerful vibrations
– The most quiet vibrator in the market
– Water resistant
– Rechargeable through USB
– Bluetooth 4.0

Material:
Body safe silicone

Measurement:
7,9 cm Length x 3,8 cm Width x 2,8 cm Thickness

Supported phones:
– iPhone 4s, 5, 6, 6 Plus.
– iPod Touch 5th Genration and later
– iPad (3rd generation and later)
– iPad Mini
– Android version 4.4 (Kitkat) and later, with Bluetooth 4.0 (BLE)
– Google Nexus 4, Google Nexus 5, Samsung Galaxy S4 and S5, Samsung Galaxy Note 2 and 3

Future product ideas, exhibitions, awards, other interesting facts
– Nominated for XBIZ Awards 2015 as the best luxury toy of the year
– Nominated for Crunchies Awards 2013 in the same category with Tinder and Candy Crush Saga.
– Featured on Wired, TechCrunch, Gizmodo, Elle, Marie Claire
– Vibease for men will be launched in summer 2015
– More than 50% women didn’t attain orgasm during sex. Many men get their sex education from the ‘movies’ which focused mainly for men pleasure. The key factors to female orgasm are audio, emotion, fantasy and the most important part is clitoral stimulation.
– Research shows men take 2 – 10 minutes to reach orgasm and women take 10–20 minutes. Vibrator is a great intimacy tool for men who care about their partner sexual satisfaction. For vibrator, size doesn’t matter

 

FLESHLIGHT KIIROO – PEARL TELEDILDONIC VIBRATOR

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The Facts:

The most empowering teledildonic vibrator for intimacy online.
– Ergonomic G-spot curve design
– Phthalate-free, hygiene silicone cover
– Powerful motor with 5 vibration modes
– Connects via Bluetooth and internet
– Enhanced by a video chat platform
– One-way connection for full control

Meet the KIIROO Pearl, the world’s most sophisticated teledildonic vibrator. Kiiroo designed Pearl with pleasure in mind. The powerful vibrating motor and ergonomic shape make Pearl great for you, and the 5 haptic technology rings put your partner’s pleasure right in your hands.

– Secure platform access
– Interactive capacitive touch
– Body-safe hygiene silicone
– Wireless Bluetooth connectivity
– Unique ergonomic shape

With Pearl, you’re in control!

Operation: Pearl is so easy to use, you won’t believe how advanced the technology is behind it. Out of the box, simply plug Pearl in, and wait for the charging light to turn off (about 2 hours). If you want to use Pearl with a partner, start up your computer and make sure Bluetooth is turned on. Then, turn on Pearl by pressing the button located at her base. Next, open the KIIROO Platform, and connect with your lover using the unique PIN. Pearl will automatically detect your Bluetooth connection, and begin sending touch data as soon as you begin to use her. To turn on vibration, press Pearl’s button once more, then you can press to cycle through vibration modes. Pleasure for you, and unbelievable control over your partner’s device.

Safety: KIIROO’s platform isn’t just revolutionary: It’s a whole new experience that’s completely secure. Each session is individually numbered, visible only to you and your partner. We don’t store your data on our servers, either. Your information is yours, just like the intimacy you share.

Connectivity: On the KIIROO social platform, you can securely connect with your partner while they control your device remotely. Whether you’re in the same room or thousands of miles away, you can feel their touch like never before (don’t worry, you can still use our devices with Skype, FaceTime, and other platforms). If you don’t want to play online, the devices easily connect locally to your computer via Bluetooth.

Total length: 19 cm
Splashproof

 

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KIIROO – ONYX TELEDILDONIC MASTURBATOR

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The Facts:

The most advanced teledildonic masturbator for online pleasure.
– Patented Fleshlight sleeve inside
– Connects via Bluetooth and internet
– Enhanced by a video chat platform
– Two-way connection for touch and feel
– Exterior capacitive touchpad
– Discreet and wireless design

Meet the KIIROO Onyx, the world’s most advanced teledildonic masturbator. Onyx brings a whole new sensory experience to the internet: intimite touch. Inside Onyx are 10 contracting rings that work together to give you the feeling of real-time intercourse. Each Onyx is capable of connecting with a KIIROO Pearl, or another KIIROO Onyx, and receiving data from those devices.

– Secure platform access
– Interactive capacitive touch
– Totally discreet design
– Wireless Bluetooth connectivity
– Unique ergonomic shape
– One multi-functional button

In short, you can truly feel your partner’s touch, in real-time, all over the world.

Operation: Using Onyx is so intuitive, you won’t believe how advanced it is inside. Out of the box, just plug Onyx in and wait for its charging light to go off (about 5 hours). Once fully charged, your Onyx is ready to go. To use with a partner, start up your computer and make sure Bluetooth is activated. Then, turn on your Onyx by pressing the button near the base. Onyx automatically enters Bluetooth Partner mode, and is ready to receive a signal. To enter the first Automatic mode, press Onyx’s button once more, then again to enter the second Automatic mode. If you want to play manually, press the button again, and begin to stroke between the brackets.

Connectivity: On the KIIROO social platform, you can securely connect with your partner while they control your device remotely. Whether you’re in the same room or thousands of miles away, you can feel their touch like never before (don’t worry, you can still use our devices with Skype, FaceTime, and other platforms).

Safety: KIIROO’s platform isn’t just revolutionary: It’s a whole new experience that’s completely secure. Each session is individually numbered, visible only to you and your partner. We don’t store your data on our servers, either. Your information is yours, just like the intimacy you share. If you don’t want to play online, the devices easily connect locally to your computer via Bluetooth.

Totale length: 24 cm

 

OHMIBOD – BLUEMOTION APP CONTROLLED NEX 1

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The Facts:

Pleasure has a new frequency. Couples already rely on their smartphones to stay connected when they’re apart – why not take that connection to the next level?

Tune in to blueMotion, the Bluetooth-enabled App controlled wearable massager.

– Perfect for couple’s use with up to 8 meter wireless range or long distance control via wifi*
– 4 integrated manual mode patterns
– USB charging
– Body-friendly materials
– Phthalate free
– Rechargeable battery for up to 1 hour of pleasure
– 1 year manufacture’s warranty

Works with OhMiBod remote.

– Pre-set patterns
– Touch control
– Tap and record
– Motion control
– Audio record
– Control via wifi*
*In-App purchase

Specifications:
– Molded from premium grade hypoallergenic non-toxic, non-porous ABS plastic with PU coating for velvety finish.
– Vibe: 9,5 cm, 4,4 cm wide, 1,3 cm thin

Includes:
– Bluetooth App controlled wearable massager
– Blue lace thong (OSFM – one size fits most)
– Privacy pouch
– USB charging cable
– Instruction manual
– 1 year manufacturer’s warranty

 

These and many more App Controlled Sex Toys are currently available in out Vanilla Kink Store……which will you choose??

 

 

 

It’s National Orgasm Day

It’s that time of year folks, yes, you guessed it….National Orgasm Day. And just why is it so? According to Wikipedia the original day was started in Brazil, with a law passed by a local councilman, Arimateio Dantas, to celebrate it. It is celebrated there on August 8, but celebrated in other countries like the UK, Australia and the US on July 31st.
But who cares anyway right!? We don’t know why it’s here but we don’t hear anyone complaining. Surely it’s just a great excuse to get down and dirty, or down and clean, whatever the preference.


We thought we’d use today to honour the big O with some fun factoids.

Millennials V’s Boomers: Probably not something you wish to overthink but apparently our parents are getting off more than us. Millennials, on average have 12 percent fewer orgasms than boomers.

Who rules the world?: Luxury Sex toy company LELO carried out an international survey to explore which country tops the orgasm leader board and the intensity of the ride. Proper scientific stuff.
Norway lead with 35 per cent of respondents claiming to orgasm every day which is more than triple that of the Brits, with only 11 per cent claiming to climax so regularly.
The global average rate of climax is two to three times per week.

Stoners know best: It would appear that people who smoke weed have SIGNIFICANTLY more orgasms. Pot smokers surveyed were 109% more likely to have multiple orgasms.

Age Matters but not in the way you would expect: You would be forgiven to think that when it comes to sex your twenties would be your peak age. Orgasmically speaking, this is not so for women.
A survey carried out revealed that the big O gets better with age with 36 being classed as the ‘Prime Time’ for the perfect orgasm.

An orgasm a day, keeps the boss at bay: If you’re not the top performer at work, it may have something to do with your sex life – or lack thereof.
Apparently that’s due to the endorphins released during orgasm in the evenings elevate your mood, improve sleep and boosts attitude and productivity the following day.
The benefits were so significant that lead author Kevin Leavitt of the study ‘From the office to the bedroom’ suggested we should be tracking our sexual activity – like many of us do with calorie and step counters. Is there an app for that yet?

Being politically active pays off: People who are more passionate about a cause or political movement have more multiple orgasms and more orgasms in general. You’ve seen how charged those marches can get.

Women can experience ‘super orgasms’: Scientists claim it is possible for women to have “super-orgasms” where they can orgasm 100 times in a row.
The climaxing state is possible, they concluded, with a mix of relaxation, yoga and bonding.
The incredible discovery dismisses previous research which said that “super-orgasms” didn’t exist.

Get Sexting: Unsurprisingly, text flirting is good for your sex life. Women who use the lips and kissing emoji have more orgasms with their partners, how that one was worked out beats us but it may be time to ramp up the sexting.

I’ll have what she’s having: A new survey has revealed that only 15% of women orgasm every time they have sex,
This is compared 56% of men, making men four times more likely to orgasm during sex.
Two in ten women said that they never orgasm through sex and the same amount of women say they wouldn’t expect to if their partner already has.
The survey by Durex, which had over 2000 participants, found that people are not likely to talk about their sexual frustration.

I know what you’re thinking………..What about the other 44% of men? Which brings us nicely to our next factoid.

It’s not just women who fake it: It’s not an exclusive club as 37% of men in Match’s survey said they had faked it at least once. The most common cited reasons being that they weren’t enjoying sex anymore, were too drunk to finish or didn’t want to disappoint their partner or were too stressed.
Trying to boost the others self-esteem was the top factor for women.

It might be time to get your geek on: 1-0 to the nerds. Tech workers have more orgasms than any other profession despite what the stereotypes might have you think.
So I guess they are having the last laugh now!!!

We wish you all a very fulfilling day and evening and as a special treat to help you out we are offering a 15% discount on EVERYTHING in our store until Friday 4th August.
Enter voucher code vkorg17 at checkout.

The Best Of The Best In Luxury Sex Toys

So, you’re a lucky son of a gun who has plenty to give by way of gift budget. Her birthday is coming up and boy, does she have expensive taste. She has rings and all other kinds of diamond encrusted jewellery. Everything has been personalised, the wardrobe full of designer gear and the shoes…. Dear lord, let’s not talk about the shoes.

But this leads to one huge dilemma…. What DO you get the woman who literally has everything money can buy?
Well, for the lady who demands the ultimate in luxurious indulgence, we introduce the world’s most exclusive massage range from Swedish based company LELO.

The new Lelo Inez is a snip at £10,000. How on earth could anyone justify a sex toy for this price? The answer is in the technology and the quality, oh and did we mention she is made of stainless steel and coated in 24K Gold?

The Inez is the ultimate bedside draw companion. So despite being gold, why else would we possibly want her? It’s not just for status, the Inez boasts a very energetic and tantalizing buzz.

Lelo say: “The metal, enticing and evocative against the naked skin, offers exciting prospects for users inclined to the sensual utilisation of hot or cold. Five pre-programmed stimulation modes and a virtually silent vibrator engine provide the basis for a multitude of enjoyable experiences. Her petite frame ensures discreet yet reassuring company, eager to sate daily desires. INEZ is rechargeable and a 2-hour charge provides up to 4 hours of bliss. Comes presented in an elegant wooden gift box, accessorised with charger, manual, satin pouch for stylish storage
For all you eco conscious consumers out there, you will also be reassured to know that the range is Phthalate free and Hypoallergenic making the range the perfect green toys.

Whilst this range is the first on the general consumer market of its kind, luxury sex toys have hit the headlines before…..
Forbes reported in 2010 on the £654,000 Pearl Royale vibrator, which made its inaugural appearance at the Asia Adult Expo.
A press released heralded the toy as: “A lavish vibrator cast in solid platinum, embellished with over 1,000 sparkling white diamonds, royal blue sapphires, lustrous South Sea pearls and the finest pink diamonds on the planet.”
Though, Lelo are not quite going THAT far….yet.

So, without further ado, let’s take a look at her.

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Lelo Gold Inez

She’s not the only one of her kind, there is plethora of items in the Lelo luxury collection and if gold is not your thing, fear not as the range also comes in a stainless steel option. With price range for the entire collection coming in at £600 -£10,000.

All we can say is, if you are going to buy her a sex toy buy LELO.

Enjoy

Halloween – The Perfect Time For Sexy Cosplay

Every year, kids — and let’s face it, adults — dress up in crazy outfits and prowl the streets, on a mission to ring strangers’ doorbells and fill buckets with sweets.

As we grow older, life can get a bit boring and who says it’s just for the kids to have fun?

Basically, Halloween is our chance to dress up and live out our fantasies. The sinister theme just adds to the excitement and slight kinkiness of the holiday.

Year on year the parties get bigger, more and more people take part and the Halloween costumes get ever more elaborate.

Witch, Cat, Zombie, cutesy, sexy or scary….we’ve got it covered and thought we would share with you a few of our best sellers and a couple of new introductions in this years collection which we think you will love.

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Bewitching Witch – £44.99
Witches can have a magical beauty! This “Bewitching Witch” costume includes a vintage inspired dress with organza and velvet collared bodice, wide belt and matching hat
This costume isn’t made of a stretch material. When in doubt, we recommend to go one size up.
Hat, gloves and Petticoat not included, available separately in our store.

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Dark Water Mermaid – £93.99
2 PC. Dark Water Siren, includes sequin bustier mermaid zipper back dress with net accents, attached lamŽ skirt with shimmer foam fin and glitter jewel crown.

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Deviant Darling – £63.99
4 PC. Deviant Darling, includes peplum garter zipper back teddy, belt, arm pieces and horn headband

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Harley Quinn – Suicide Squad – £63.99
6 PC. Misfit Hipster, includes ringer crop top with hashtag accent, two tone lamŽ leggings, clip on suspenders, choker, fingerless gloves and faux frames.
Wig sold separately.

This is just asmall selection, so head on over to our Sexy Halloween Costume page for plenty more costume options.

HAPPY HALLOWEEN Kinkers.

Pelvic Floor Exercise and Kegel Aids.

Most women at some point or another have experienced slight leaks when sneezing, coughing, laughing or during exercise. Whilst we may joke about it amoungst friends, it can actually prove quite embarrassing at times and do any of us know at which point is it beyond normal?

Our little leaks are as a result of weakened pelvic floor muscles. We all hear the phrase ‘Pelvic Floor’ often during conversation and anyone who has had a baby will have been advised (albeit probably very briefly) by the midwife to work them during pregnancy and after childbirth.

Your pelvic floor muscles run from your pubic bone at the front to the base of your spine at the back. They hold your pelvic organs (uterus, vagina, bowel and bladder) in place. These muscles support the bladder and bowel, and give you control when you urinate. They relax at the same time as the bladder contracts (tightens) to let urine out.

These muscles weaken as you age and this is not exclusive to mothers as many childless women also suffer though childbirth can be an accelerator. Weakened pelvic muscles can cause problems, such as urinary incontinence and reduced sensitivity during sex. There is also a risk of prolapse, where one or more of the pelvic organs bulges into the vagina. While such problems can afflict new mums, even those who show no signs of weak pelvic floor muscles can develop difficulties decades later. Any woman is susceptible post-menopause because the reduced levels of oestrogen slackens the muscles.

Around 30 to 40 per cent of women will suffer a prolapse in their lifetime. An estimated 7m women in the UK suffer (usually without discussing it) from some degree of stress incontinence. In 1998 the World Health Organization (WHO) reported that bladder control problems affect more than 200m people worldwide.

There are home exercises you can undertake to strengthen the pelvic floor muscles for example try sit comfortably and squeeze the muscles 10 to 15 times in a row. Do not hold your breath or tighten your stomach, buttock or thigh muscles at the same time. When you get used to doing pelvic floor exercises, you can try holding each squeeze for a few seconds. Every week, you can add more squeezes, but be careful not to overdo it and always have a rest between sets of squeezes. After a few months, you should start to notice the results. Your incontinence should improve, as well as the sensitivity you experience during sex. You should carry on doing the exercises, even when you notice them starting to work.

If you are pregnant or planning to get pregnant, you can start doing pelvic floor exercises straight away. The exercises will lower your risk of experiencing incontinence after having your baby.

It is a common misconception that the best exercise is to stopping the flow of urine when you are going for a wee. This method is really not a good idea because it can be harmful to the bladder and cause urinary tract infection.

Pelvic floor exercises are often called Kegel exercises after Dr Arnold Kegel, who developed them in 1948.

Nowadays there are a wide variety of variable kegel products on a wide price spectrum on the market, specifically designed to increase muscle tone and thus also aiding increased sensitivity during sex. Let’s take a look at a couple of examples……

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Silhouette S1 Pink Kegel Exerciser at £73.99
Train your pelvic muscles with this perfectly weighted, premium silicone kegel exerciser. It has an easy retrieval cord and intense incremental speed control that can be adjusted by pressing the button. The practical travel lock feature makes sure the toy doens’t turn on at inconvenient moments.

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The Alexandra Ben Wa Balls at £34.99
The Alexandra -Experience one of the oldest forms of female stimulation. Dating back over 100 years, the Kegel Ball was created to enhance the sexual experience by exercising & toning the vaginal muscles. Use the balls alone to increase muscle strength , or with the soft silicone sleeve to take your orgasms to the next level. Perfect alone, or for couples.

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Up! Tone It Up! at £19.99
Combining the most velvety, temperature receptive silicone imaginable with deeply felt, perfectly positioned natural vibration, the Up! collection’s Tone It Up Weighted Orgasm Balls offer all the pelvic-floor strengthening benefits of a classic set of ben wa balls, along with with pure, completely discreet pleasure.

If you are concerned about the degree of stress incontinence you may be suffering, it is always advised that you seek professional help as some treatments are available on the NHS.

Credits: NHS, World Health Organisation.

Vanilla Kink & The Moulin Rouge Ball.

If life’s an awful bore, and living’s just a chore that we do caus’ death’s not much fun. I just have the antidote, and though I mustn’t gloat at the Moulin Rouge. You’ll have fun… Scratch that little niggle, have a little wiggle, you know that you can… Because we can can can.

Don your glad rags, your bustles, stripes and fringes, get down to the ball and loosen up your hinges.

Aardvarker are presenting an evening of Parisienne underworld’ elegance at the Moulin Rouge Ball. The ball will take place at The Double Tree Hilton Chester on the night of 24th September 2016

Information, tickets or table reservations: info@aardvarker.com

For more information on the ball or how to book go to Aardvarker.com alternatively, you can go right ahead and book your tickets or table reservations: info@aardvarker.com.

Looking for costume inspiration? Then look no further than our very own Burlesque Store on our Vanilla Kink site.

See you there burly boys and girls.

 

 

 

 

What does ‘SEX POSITIVE’ actually mean?

We hear the term ‘Sex Positive’ being banded about all the time but what does it actually mean?

Well, according to The Urban Dictionary, it’s defined as such:

An approach to sex and human sexuality that embraces the full benefits of sexual interraction as healthy and uplifting, based upon the premise that sexual expression is good and healthy and that societal repression or control of the individual’s sex-drive is bad and unhealthy.

 With huge scope for interpretation, this can mean many things to many people depending on where your boundaries lie.However, generally speaking, it boils down to: as long as you are having a nice time, it’s healthy and no one is getting hurt (without consent) then leave everyone to get on with it. Of course, without judgement.

But what do we class as healthy? Obviously, everyone has different tastes and different definitions of sexual acts. Bill Clinton didn’t believe that a blow job is a sexual act…and he was running a country!?

Sex positive doesn’t mean you are an insatiable animal, feeding your sex addiction at all times of the day, permanently locked in a deep dark, chain filled, starring in porn for all to see or running through the streets naked.

It is simply a movement to promote health, safety and acceptance. Does it matter if the gay couple over the road have orgies or the same sex married couple, never have sex at all. So your friend is asexual and has no desire whatsoever. Mr Thingemembob has regular threesomes, the local barmaid has a huge sex toy collection or Derek from the darts team has been celebate for 2 years.

Just enjoying it for what it is. Be it with a partner or alone if needed (or desired) There should be no shame or negative attitude to any of your choices so long as everyone involved has given consent.

It’s not just women who may need a little encouragement with expression or confidence, plenty of men suffer a negatve attitude towards sex. Be it due to body confidence, a bad experience with a partner, a tainted past or upbringing.

Gay, straight, transgender, solitary, roleplay, domination, submission, whether you ar Vanilla or Kink… whatever a person’s preference, if it gives you a shudder, guess what? It doesn’t mean it is wrong..

Sexologist Carol Queen sums it up perfectly –  “It’s the cultural philosophy that understands sexuality as a potentially positive force in one’s life, and it can, of course, be contrasted with sex-negativity, which sees sex as problematic, disruptive, dangerous. Sex-positivity allows for and in fact celebrates sexual diversity, differing desires and relationships structures, and individual choices based on consent.”

 

Exporing your sexuality, owning it, enjoying your body in any way you can, whether with a partner or alone HAS to be a good thing right? Let’s all just accept eachothers choices, needs and desires and get on.

 

Stay happy, stay positive, stay safe.

LELO’s Rechargeable Rabbit Is Here!!

INA 2 is the new and improved version of LELO’s best selling luxury rechargeable rabbit vibrator. It boasts 100% stronger vibrations across eight different settings than before. It’s stem has also been extended for deeper G-Spot pleasure, while the flexible finger on top delivers exquisite stimulation to the clitoris.
Crafted from the smoothest body-safe silicone, INA 2 is also fully waterproof for use in the bath or shower, delivering wave after wave of pleasure any time you choose.
As with all LELO products, INA 2 arrives in a stylish gift box with a full 1-Year Warranty and 10-Year Quality Guarantee. **Products are only under warranty if you keep the card and/or number for your LELO product**

 

We are currently stocking Ina in our store retailing at £119.00