The Best Of The Best In Luxury Sex Toys

So, you’re a lucky son of a gun who has plenty to give by way of gift budget. Her birthday is coming up and boy, does she have expensive taste. She has rings and all other kinds of diamond encrusted jewellery. Everything has been personalised, the wardrobe full of designer gear and the shoes…. Dear lord, let’s not talk about the shoes.

But this leads to one huge dilemma…. What DO you get the woman who literally has everything money can buy?
Well, for the lady who demands the ultimate in luxurious indulgence, we introduce the world’s most exclusive massage range from Swedish based company LELO.

The new Lelo Inez is a snip at £10,000. How on earth could anyone justify a sex toy for this price? The answer is in the technology and the quality, oh and did we mention she is made of stainless steel and coated in 24K Gold?

The Inez is the ultimate bedside draw companion. So despite being gold, why else would we possibly want her? It’s not just for status, the Inez boasts a very energetic and tantalizing buzz.

Lelo say: “The metal, enticing and evocative against the naked skin, offers exciting prospects for users inclined to the sensual utilisation of hot or cold. Five pre-programmed stimulation modes and a virtually silent vibrator engine provide the basis for a multitude of enjoyable experiences. Her petite frame ensures discreet yet reassuring company, eager to sate daily desires. INEZ is rechargeable and a 2-hour charge provides up to 4 hours of bliss. Comes presented in an elegant wooden gift box, accessorised with charger, manual, satin pouch for stylish storage
For all you eco conscious consumers out there, you will also be reassured to know that the range is Phthalate free and Hypoallergenic making the range the perfect green toys.

Whilst this range is the first on the general consumer market of its kind, luxury sex toys have hit the headlines before…..
Forbes reported in 2010 on the £654,000 Pearl Royale vibrator, which made its inaugural appearance at the Asia Adult Expo.
A press released heralded the toy as: “A lavish vibrator cast in solid platinum, embellished with over 1,000 sparkling white diamonds, royal blue sapphires, lustrous South Sea pearls and the finest pink diamonds on the planet.”
Though, Lelo are not quite going THAT far….yet.

So, without further ado, let’s take a look at her.

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Lelo Gold Inez

She’s not the only one of her kind, there is plethora of items in the Lelo luxury collection and if gold is not your thing, fear not as the range also comes in a stainless steel option. With price range for the entire collection coming in at £600 -£10,000.

All we can say is, if you are going to buy her a sex toy buy LELO.

Enjoy

Halloween – The Perfect Time For Sexy Cosplay

Every year, kids — and let’s face it, adults — dress up in crazy outfits and prowl the streets, on a mission to ring strangers’ doorbells and fill buckets with sweets.

As we grow older, life can get a bit boring and who says it’s just for the kids to have fun?

Basically, Halloween is our chance to dress up and live out our fantasies. The sinister theme just adds to the excitement and slight kinkiness of the holiday.

Year on year the parties get bigger, more and more people take part and the Halloween costumes get ever more elaborate.

Witch, Cat, Zombie, cutesy, sexy or scary….we’ve got it covered and thought we would share with you a few of our best sellers and a couple of new introductions in this years collection which we think you will love.

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Bewitching Witch – £44.99
Witches can have a magical beauty! This “Bewitching Witch” costume includes a vintage inspired dress with organza and velvet collared bodice, wide belt and matching hat
This costume isn’t made of a stretch material. When in doubt, we recommend to go one size up.
Hat, gloves and Petticoat not included, available separately in our store.

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Dark Water Mermaid – £93.99
2 PC. Dark Water Siren, includes sequin bustier mermaid zipper back dress with net accents, attached lamŽ skirt with shimmer foam fin and glitter jewel crown.

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Deviant Darling – £63.99
4 PC. Deviant Darling, includes peplum garter zipper back teddy, belt, arm pieces and horn headband

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Harley Quinn – Suicide Squad – £63.99
6 PC. Misfit Hipster, includes ringer crop top with hashtag accent, two tone lamŽ leggings, clip on suspenders, choker, fingerless gloves and faux frames.
Wig sold separately.

This is just asmall selection, so head on over to our Sexy Halloween Costume page for plenty more costume options.

HAPPY HALLOWEEN Kinkers.

Pelvic Floor Exercise and Kegel Aids.

Most women at some point or another have experienced slight leaks when sneezing, coughing, laughing or during exercise. Whilst we may joke about it amoungst friends, it can actually prove quite embarrassing at times and do any of us know at which point is it beyond normal?

Our little leaks are as a result of weakened pelvic floor muscles. We all hear the phrase ‘Pelvic Floor’ often during conversation and anyone who has had a baby will have been advised (albeit probably very briefly) by the midwife to work them during pregnancy and after childbirth.

Your pelvic floor muscles run from your pubic bone at the front to the base of your spine at the back. They hold your pelvic organs (uterus, vagina, bowel and bladder) in place. These muscles support the bladder and bowel, and give you control when you urinate. They relax at the same time as the bladder contracts (tightens) to let urine out.

These muscles weaken as you age and this is not exclusive to mothers as many childless women also suffer though childbirth can be an accelerator. Weakened pelvic muscles can cause problems, such as urinary incontinence and reduced sensitivity during sex. There is also a risk of prolapse, where one or more of the pelvic organs bulges into the vagina. While such problems can afflict new mums, even those who show no signs of weak pelvic floor muscles can develop difficulties decades later. Any woman is susceptible post-menopause because the reduced levels of oestrogen slackens the muscles.

Around 30 to 40 per cent of women will suffer a prolapse in their lifetime. An estimated 7m women in the UK suffer (usually without discussing it) from some degree of stress incontinence. In 1998 the World Health Organization (WHO) reported that bladder control problems affect more than 200m people worldwide.

There are home exercises you can undertake to strengthen the pelvic floor muscles for example try sit comfortably and squeeze the muscles 10 to 15 times in a row. Do not hold your breath or tighten your stomach, buttock or thigh muscles at the same time. When you get used to doing pelvic floor exercises, you can try holding each squeeze for a few seconds. Every week, you can add more squeezes, but be careful not to overdo it and always have a rest between sets of squeezes. After a few months, you should start to notice the results. Your incontinence should improve, as well as the sensitivity you experience during sex. You should carry on doing the exercises, even when you notice them starting to work.

If you are pregnant or planning to get pregnant, you can start doing pelvic floor exercises straight away. The exercises will lower your risk of experiencing incontinence after having your baby.

It is a common misconception that the best exercise is to stopping the flow of urine when you are going for a wee. This method is really not a good idea because it can be harmful to the bladder and cause urinary tract infection.

Pelvic floor exercises are often called Kegel exercises after Dr Arnold Kegel, who developed them in 1948.

Nowadays there are a wide variety of variable kegel products on a wide price spectrum on the market, specifically designed to increase muscle tone and thus also aiding increased sensitivity during sex. Let’s take a look at a couple of examples……

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Silhouette S1 Pink Kegel Exerciser at £73.99
Train your pelvic muscles with this perfectly weighted, premium silicone kegel exerciser. It has an easy retrieval cord and intense incremental speed control that can be adjusted by pressing the button. The practical travel lock feature makes sure the toy doens’t turn on at inconvenient moments.

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The Alexandra Ben Wa Balls at £34.99
The Alexandra -Experience one of the oldest forms of female stimulation. Dating back over 100 years, the Kegel Ball was created to enhance the sexual experience by exercising & toning the vaginal muscles. Use the balls alone to increase muscle strength , or with the soft silicone sleeve to take your orgasms to the next level. Perfect alone, or for couples.

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Up! Tone It Up! at £19.99
Combining the most velvety, temperature receptive silicone imaginable with deeply felt, perfectly positioned natural vibration, the Up! collection’s Tone It Up Weighted Orgasm Balls offer all the pelvic-floor strengthening benefits of a classic set of ben wa balls, along with with pure, completely discreet pleasure.

If you are concerned about the degree of stress incontinence you may be suffering, it is always advised that you seek professional help as some treatments are available on the NHS.

Credits: NHS, World Health Organisation.

Vanilla Kink & The Moulin Rouge Ball.

If life’s an awful bore, and living’s just a chore that we do caus’ death’s not much fun. I just have the antidote, and though I mustn’t gloat at the Moulin Rouge. You’ll have fun… Scratch that little niggle, have a little wiggle, you know that you can… Because we can can can.

Don your glad rags, your bustles, stripes and fringes, get down to the ball and loosen up your hinges.

Aardvarker are presenting an evening of Parisienne underworld’ elegance at the Moulin Rouge Ball. The ball will take place at The Double Tree Hilton Chester on the night of 24th September 2016

Information, tickets or table reservations: info@aardvarker.com

For more information on the ball or how to book go to Aardvarker.com alternatively, you can go right ahead and book your tickets or table reservations: info@aardvarker.com.

Looking for costume inspiration? Then look no further than our very own Burlesque Store on our Vanilla Kink site.

See you there burly boys and girls.

 

 

 

 

What does ‘SEX POSITIVE’ actually mean?

We hear the term ‘Sex Positive’ being banded about all the time but what does it actually mean?

Well, according to The Urban Dictionary, it’s defined as such:

An approach to sex and human sexuality that embraces the full benefits of sexual interraction as healthy and uplifting, based upon the premise that sexual expression is good and healthy and that societal repression or control of the individual’s sex-drive is bad and unhealthy.

 With huge scope for interpretation, this can mean many things to many people depending on where your boundaries lie.However, generally speaking, it boils down to: as long as you are having a nice time, it’s healthy and no one is getting hurt (without consent) then leave everyone to get on with it. Of course, without judgement.

But what do we class as healthy? Obviously, everyone has different tastes and different definitions of sexual acts. Bill Clinton didn’t believe that a blow job is a sexual act…and he was running a country!?

Sex positive doesn’t mean you are an insatiable animal, feeding your sex addiction at all times of the day, permanently locked in a deep dark, chain filled, starring in porn for all to see or running through the streets naked.

It is simply a movement to promote health, safety and acceptance. Does it matter if the gay couple over the road have orgies or the same sex married couple, never have sex at all. So your friend is asexual and has no desire whatsoever. Mr Thingemembob has regular threesomes, the local barmaid has a huge sex toy collection or Derek from the darts team has been celebate for 2 years.

Just enjoying it for what it is. Be it with a partner or alone if needed (or desired) There should be no shame or negative attitude to any of your choices so long as everyone involved has given consent.

It’s not just women who may need a little encouragement with expression or confidence, plenty of men suffer a negatve attitude towards sex. Be it due to body confidence, a bad experience with a partner, a tainted past or upbringing.

Gay, straight, transgender, solitary, roleplay, domination, submission, whether you ar Vanilla or Kink… whatever a person’s preference, if it gives you a shudder, guess what? It doesn’t mean it is wrong..

Sexologist Carol Queen sums it up perfectly –  “It’s the cultural philosophy that understands sexuality as a potentially positive force in one’s life, and it can, of course, be contrasted with sex-negativity, which sees sex as problematic, disruptive, dangerous. Sex-positivity allows for and in fact celebrates sexual diversity, differing desires and relationships structures, and individual choices based on consent.”

 

Exporing your sexuality, owning it, enjoying your body in any way you can, whether with a partner or alone HAS to be a good thing right? Let’s all just accept eachothers choices, needs and desires and get on.

 

Stay happy, stay positive, stay safe.

LELO’s Rechargeable Rabbit Is Here!!

INA 2 is the new and improved version of LELO’s best selling luxury rechargeable rabbit vibrator. It boasts 100% stronger vibrations across eight different settings than before. It’s stem has also been extended for deeper G-Spot pleasure, while the flexible finger on top delivers exquisite stimulation to the clitoris.
Crafted from the smoothest body-safe silicone, INA 2 is also fully waterproof for use in the bath or shower, delivering wave after wave of pleasure any time you choose.
As with all LELO products, INA 2 arrives in a stylish gift box with a full 1-Year Warranty and 10-Year Quality Guarantee. **Products are only under warranty if you keep the card and/or number for your LELO product**

 

We are currently stocking Ina in our store retailing at £119.00